How to Recognize When God Sends Your Husband

by Sister McCook
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As a Christian woman, it is only natural to want to seek out a partner that shares your faith and values.

But the journey to finding the right partner can be long and challenging.

As you navigate the dating world, it can be difficult to discern whether the man you’re dating is truly the one God has sent for you.

However, the good news is that there are signs to look out for that can help you determine whether your partner is indeed the one chosen by God.

This post aims to guide you through the process of recognizing when God sends your husband.

He shares your values and beliefs

One of the most important aspects of a successful relationship is that both partners share similar values and beliefs.

In a Christian context, it is crucial that both partners hold the same faith and have a deep respect for God.

When God sends your husband, he will naturally embody these virtues, and it will be evident in the way he walks his talk.

He encourages you on your spiritual journey

A godly husband is not just someone you can pray with or attend Bible study together, but he also encourages you, supports you, and even challenges you on your spiritual journey.

Whether it’s by recommending books, sharing insights, or providing guidance when you’re feeling lost, a man who is sent by God will always strive to point you closer to Him.

He has a servant heart

In Matthew 20:28, Jesus says that even He came to serve and not to be served. A godly husband should also exhibit this same sacrificial spirit.

He should be willing to put your needs above his own, and serve you in any way that he can.

A man who has the heart of a servant is a true hallmark of someone who has received God’s calling to be your husband.

He respects and honors you

“A husband should love his wife as Christ loved the church” (Ephesians 5:25).

This means that he must always respect you, honor you, and consider your perspective. When you’re with the man God has sent for you, you should feel comfortable and safe.

You can be confident that he will always treat you well and never belittle or hurt you in any way.

A man of integrity and honor is someone who is worthy of being your partner in life.

He brings you closer to God

He won’t distract you from your faith, but rather his presence in your life should remind you of God’s goodness and love.

The Lord may also use the man God has sent for you to teach you new truths about Him, and to help you grow in your own faith.

He Loves God More Than Anything Else

A man who loves God knows how to love others the way God loves them. He is humble, kind, patient, and forgiving.

He leads you closer to Jesus, rather than away from him.

His love for God is the foundation of his character, and he seeks to honor God in everything he does.

He Respects You

A man who is God-sent also respects you as a child of God. He values your thoughts, opinions, and feelings.

He treats you with dignity and honor, and does not take advantage of you in any way.

He listens to you, cares about your well-being, and supports you in your dreams and passions.

He is committed to your growth both personally and spiritually.

He Brings Out the Best in You

Another important sign that your husband is God-sent is that he brings out the best in you.

He is not intimidated by your strengths, your talents, and your gifts.

Instead, he encourages you to use them to glorify God and benefit others.

He challenges you to be a better person, to overcome your weaknesses, and to pursue your purpose in life.

He sees your potential and helps you achieve it.

He Puts Your Needs Before His

A man who is God-sent also puts your needs before his.

He is willing to sacrifice his own comfort, desires, and ambitions for the sake of your well-being.

He takes care of you emotionally, physically, and spiritually.

He supports you in times of distress, encourages you in times of doubt, and celebrates with you in times of joy.

He is committed to serving you and making you happy.

He is Committed to You for Life

Finally, a key sign that your husband is God-sent is that he is committed to you for life.

He sees marriage as a covenant, not just a contract.

He is willing to stick with you through thick and thin, and to work through any challenges or conflicts that may arise.

He loves you unconditionally, forgives you when you mess up, and seeks to build a long-lasting relationship with you and with God.

He understands that marriage is a reflection of the unconditional love that God has for his people.

Recognizing your God-sent husband requires discernment, prayer, and a deep relationship with God.

Look for a man who loves God respects you, brings out the best in you, puts your needs before his, and is committed to you for life.

Trust God to lead you to the person he has chosen for you, and seek his guidance every step of the way.

Remember that marriage is not just about finding “the one,” but about becoming the one God created you to be and working together with your spouse to fulfill your calling and mission in life.

May God bless you and guide you as you seek to recognize and appreciate your God-sent husband.

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