When to Kiss: Christian Dating Tips

by Sister McCook
Christian couple dating and kissing

When it comes to Christian dating, there are a few things that you need to keep in mind.

One of the most important is when to kiss.

Kissing is a big deal. It’s one of the most intimate things that you can do with someone.

That’s why it’s important to get it right – especially when you’re Christian dating.

If you want your relationship with God to grow, you need to be careful about when and how you kiss someone.

In this post, we will discuss some tips for Christian dating and when to kiss!

What does the Bible say about kissing during Christian dating?

There is no one answer to this question since the Bible doesn’t explicitly say anything about kissing during Christian dating.

However, there are a few things to consider that can help you decide if and when kissing is appropriate.

One thing to think about is the purpose of kissing.

In a dating relationship, kissing can be used as a way to express affection and physical attraction.

It can also be a way to show emotional intimacy and can be part of a healthy and enjoyable sexual relationship.

Another thing to consider is your motivation for wanting to kiss.

If you’re feeling pressured to kiss by your partner or by the situation, it’s probably not a good idea.

Kissing should be something you both want to do, not something you feel like you have to do.

Finally, think about the level of physical intimacy you’re comfortable with.

And be mindful not to be tempted to have any relations before marriage.

Is Kissing Before Marriage a Sin?

This is a question that many Christians struggle with. Unfortunately, there is no easy answer.

The Bible doesn’t give us a clear answer on this issue.

However, there are a few things that we can look at to help us make a decision.

First of all, let’s look at what the Bible says about sex.

“Do not have sexual relations with anyone, unless you are married to him or her.” (Leviticus 18:22)

This verse is pretty clear. It tells us that we should only have sex with our spouse.

So, if we apply this to kissing, it would mean that we should only kiss our spouse.

However, we need to be careful with this verse. It’s important to understand that the Bible is not saying that sex is a bad thing.

It’s simply saying that we should only do it with our spouse.

The Bible is not saying that kissing is a bad thing.

If kissing cause you to lust or tempt you in a way that leads to having sex, it might be best to avoid it until you’re married.

Here are three bible verses that talks about kissing;

“Greet one another with a holy kiss.” (Romans 16:16)

“Let him kiss me with the kisses of his mouth— for your love is more delightful than wine.” (Song of Solomon)

These verses show us that kissing can be a good thing. It can be a way to show love and affection.

So, if we apply these verses to our question, it would mean that kissing is not a bad thing.

How do you know when it’s the right time to kiss someone you’re interested in?

It can be tough to know when it’s the right time to kiss someone you’re dating.

On one hand, you don’t want to move too fast and scare them off.

On the other hand, you don’t want to wait too long and have them think you’re not interested.

So how can you tell when the time is right?

Here are a few things to keep in mind that can help you make the decision:

  • How long have you been dating? If it’s only been a few weeks, it’s probably best to wait.
  • What’s the status of your relationship? If you’re not sure where you stand, it’s probably best to wait.
  • Do they seem ready?* This is a tricky one, but you can usually tell by their body language if someone is leaning in or pulling away.
  • The most important thing is to make sure you’re both on the same page. If you’re not, it’s probably best to wait.
  • If you’re still not sure, it’s never a bad idea to err on the side of caution and wait a little longer.

What are some tips for making the kiss feel good for both people involved?

One of the most important things to keep in mind when kissing is that it should be enjoyable for both people involved.

There are a few key things you can do to make sure your kiss is memorable and pleasant for both of you.

1. Pay attention to your partner’s body language

If they seem tense or uncomfortable, it’s probably not the best time to go in for a kiss.

Make sure both of you are relaxed and enjoying each other’s company before you make your move.

2. Take it slow

A lot of the pleasure of a kiss comes from the anticipation.

Build up the moment by caressing your partner’s face or running your fingers through their hair.

Take your time and enjoy the feeling of being close to someone you care about.

3. Don’t get too slobbery

Nobody likes a kiss that’s all tongue.

A little bit of tongue can be nice, but don’t go overboard.

You don’t want your kiss to turn into a sloppy mess.

4. Pay attention to your partner

Kissing is all about give and take. Pay attention to what your partner is doing and mirror their actions.

If they’re being gentle, you should be gentle too.

If they start to get more passionate, you can follow their lead.

5. Have fun

Remember, kissing is supposed to be enjoyable! If you’re not having a good time, chances are your partner isn’t either.

Relax and let yourself go with the moment.

6. Lusting

Don’t kiss if it causes you to lust or tempt you to have sex. this is one of the most important and difficult things about getting physical with someone while dating as a Christian.

Don’t kiss if you’re not feeling it

It can be tempting to kiss someone when you’re not really feeling it, but trust me – it’s not worth it.

It’ll only make things awkward and you’ll probably end up regretting it.

So, when should you kiss someone?

The answer is simple: wait for the right moment. Don’t force it.

There’s no set rule for when you should kiss someone, but if you’re not feeling it, then don’t do it.

What should you do if you don’t like how the kiss went or if it made you uncomfortable?

If the kiss didn’t go well, don’t worry!

It can be awkward to kiss someone for the first time, especially if it’s someone you’re really into.

Here are a few things you can do if you don’t like how the kiss went:

  • Talk to your partner about it. They might be feeling just as awkward as you are!
  • Try kissing again. It might take a few tries to get it right.
  • Relax and have fun with it. Remember, kissing is supposed to be enjoyable!

If the kiss made you uncomfortable, that’s OK too.

It’s possible that you’re not ready to kiss yet, or that you’re not comfortable with the person you’re kissing.

If you don’t want to kiss again, just tell your partner and explain why.

They should understand.


Kissing while Christian dating is tricky.

There’s no set rule for when you should kiss someone, but if you’re not feeling it, then don’t do it.

Kissing is an important part of dating. It can be a way to show your love and affection for someone.

There are different types of kisses, each with its own meaning.

Knowing when to kiss and which type of kiss to give can help you build better relationships.

Most importantly do not kiss while dating if it causes you to lust or might lead to things that might cause you to sin.

Remember to take time in the relationship to focus on God together and keep a focus on Him.

Don’t do anything that’s going to tempt you to sin.

Keep the intention of dating in mind – which is to marry.

And use dating to understand and learn about how much you and your partner have in common.

While growing closer to God and strengthening your faith in Him.

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